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I love it when gay boys sidle up next to me on the bus while I'm knitting and ask me if I could teach them how to knit so that they can pick up cute boys..., I love it that my hairless cat snuggles up underneath the down comforter in the crook of my belly in August to sleep with me all night..., I love seeing multi-cultural families walking past my house on the weekends..., I love this unknown being that maybe someday will become my child, dark-skinned and curly-haired..., I love it that our new lesbian best friends got pregnant the first time they were artifically inseminated... and that they called us at 5:00 a.m. to tell us they were pregnant... and that they saved the two pregnancy tests for two days to show us the proof... , I love shopping at garage sales on Saturday mornings, sipping coffee in the front seat of the car while my husband patiently drives along..., I love that my husband prefers adoption to procreation..., I hate it when my loving but misguided family finds entertainment in playing the "let's-recount-the-101-ways-she-shouldn't-live-her-life" game..., I hate it that my family lives so far away... but I'd never live where they live..., I hate it that my mother-in-law and sister-in-law both passed away within the first four years of my marriage... I hate it that they'll never see our kids..., Oh, and I like reading, sewing, watching movies and swimming in the ocean and I hate bigots, corporate bull shit, and not having a kid after a year and a half of waiting...,